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== Charles Buck Theological Dictionary <ref name="term_20281" /> ==
<p> <b> PARENTS </b> </p> <p> <b> 1. </b> <i> [[Jewish]] parents </i> .—A few introductory remarks on the conjugal relation are necessary. The husband was supreme in the household, his authority recognized by the wife—and here it may be noted that, while polygamy was permitted by the Jewish law, the principle of ‘one man one wife’ had won general acceptance. As for the legal status of the wife, the provisions in respect to some things (see Divorce) were onesided; but her position, if subordinate, was by no means one of absolute dependence, nor was she relegated to the seclusion common in other [[Oriental]] nations. The husband ruled; the wife’s influence in all domestic concerns was great. [[Fidelity]] was expected on both sides. The match might have been arranged by other parties (see Marriage), but the relations of the wedded pair would be characterized by a growing love. The honourable position of the faithful wife ( Proverbs 31:10-31) would be evidenced in countless Jewish homes. To the strong attachment of husband to wife, of wife to husband, there is frequent and touching allusion in later Jewish literature. It would make itself felt in the whole family life. </p> <p> This brief notice of the conjugal relation should help to a correct appreciation of the relations now to be considered, viz. the parental, and, by consequence, the filial. At once it may be set down that the requirements of the [[Fifth]] [[Commandment]] had taken deep hold in Jewish life. As Bousset ( <i> Rel. d. Jud. </i> 402) remarks, it was not forgotten that in the [[Decalogue]] the duties of children to parents follow immediately upon those which turn on matters religious and ritual. The requirements, it should be noted particularly, place both parents on the same level. In practice the supremacy of the father as ruler of the household was, indeed, recognized; his power over his children was almost absolute: at the same time, the utmost respect and obedience to both father and mother were demanded and yielded. [[Domestic]] discipline was exceedingly strict; the behaviour of child to parent would be marked by that courtliness of etiqnette which was once a feature of [[English]] family life; there was, perhaps, little demonstrativeness of affection in the case of the father. [[Restraint]] is, in short, observable; but it formed no barrier to a love deep and strong which knit child to parent and parent to child: the full pathos of the love which linked a Jewish father to his son cannot be set down in words. The joyousness of child-life was in no wise cramped: allusion is met with to the readiness of parents to provide for, and to enter into, the amusement of the children. Not until the 2nd cent., was the maintenance of children the subject of legal enactment; fulfilment of the duty had probably been taken as a matter of course. It was certainly expected that children should minister to the necessities of aged parents. See, further, Boyhood. </p> <p> <b> 2. </b> <i> The home at [[Nazareth]] </i> .—Joseph was in any case the legal father of [[Jesus]] (Dalman, <i> The Words of Jesus </i> ); hence the parental and filial relation as illustrated in the Holy [[Family]] may be discussed apart from questions treated of elsewhere (see Virgin-birth). The glimpses afforded are but few: there are the stories in the opening chapters of Matthew and Luke, and some incidents in our Lord’s ministry. [[Fragmentary]] notices; and yet a great deal may be read into them when studied in connexion with the preceding paragraphs. </p> <p> What, then, is discernible in the parents of Jesus? [[Conjugal]] attachment; so also a genuine and simple-hearted piety. They are punctilious in the observance of religious duties ( Luke 2:21-22); if attendance at the [[Passover]] was only demanded of men, Mary is quick to avail herself of a privilege which had been extended to women also ( Luke 2:41). That the child Jesus ‘increased in wisdom’ ( Luke 2:40; Luke 2:52) is a statement not to be interpreted without thought of the parental care which watched over His ripening intelligence. If His ‘understanding and answers’ were cause of astonishment ( Luke 2:47), the explanation points, in part at any rate, to early training given by His mother; to the careful discharge, by Joseph, of the paternal duties, so preparing Him for the eventful day when, arrived at the age of twelve years, He would become a ‘son of the Law.’ There was the further discharge of paternal duty as the lad was taught a trade ( Mark 6:3). The strict discipline above spoken of is implied in Luke 2:51 ( καὶ ἦν ὑποτασσόμενος αὐτοῖς): the respect and obedience which [[Joseph]] and Mary claim as their due are promptly rendered by the boy, the growing youth. </p> <p> There the narrative of the early life of Jesus breaks off; of [[Gospel]] record of the next eighteen years there is none. With the resumption of the narrative Jesus has arrived at manhood; Joseph disappears from the scene, and attention accordingly centres on the relations of Jesus with the widowed mother. No longer is He a member of the family circle; Mary is cared for by sons and daughters; but the respect, the affection, the loving solicitude of ‘her firstborn son’ is still enjoyed by her. He asserts His independence, but with perfect courtesy ( John 2:4; ‘the address is that of courteous respect, even of tenderness,’ Westcott). He is not to be understood in Mark 3:32-34 as disowning parental ties; rather as speaking of a family of God that is greater than the human family. The touching incident recorded in John 19:26-27 is significant of maternal and filial devotion to the very end. </p> <p> <b> 3. </b> <i> Sayings of our Lord </i> .—Attention must now be directed to notes struck by Jesus where recorded sayings of His have reference to the parental and filial relations. Few in number, they are significant. For Him parents are the natural guardians ( Luke 8:56). He has seathing condemnation for the legal fiction which affords means of escape for children unwilling to contribute to their parents’ support ( Matthew 15:3-6, Mark 7:9-13); the Fifth Commandment, for Him, is paramount above other religious duties (see Corban). He takes obedience to the Fifth Commandment for granted ( Matthew 19:19, Mark 10:19, Luke 18:20); its observance is a condition of ‘eternal life.’ If in days near at hand parent will betray child and child parent, the unnatural circumstance will be but evidence of tribulation predicted by Him ( Matthew 10:21, Mark 13:12, Luke 21:16). What He says in Matthew 10:37 ( Luke 14:26) is tantamount to a recognition of the strength of family ties. Very beautifully has it been said that His favourite illustration was drawn from the home. Thus in the Lord’s [[Prayer]] it is the idea of the home that governs the Prayer. The relations between the [[Heavenly]] Father and His children are set forth in terms richly suggestive of the human relationships. ‘Reverence and submission—that the parent has a right to obtain from the children; support, forbearance, and protection—that the children on their part have a right to ask from the parent’ (A. W. Robinson, <i> [[Church]] [[Catechism]] [[Explained]] </i> ). </p> <p> Two sayings may present difficulty. One of them occurs in Luke 18:29; it must be compared with Matthew 19:29-30, Mark 10:29-30, where descriptions of the blessings of the [[Messianic]] [[Kingdom]] are set forth in terms familiar to the Jews of our Lord’s day. [[Mention]] is indeed made of circumstances under which the renunciation of earthly ties may be demanded; they are, however, exceptional circumstances, where the ties in question are incompatible with a higher allegiance. The other saying occurs in Matthew 8:21 (cf. Luke 9:59). [[Request]] and rejoinder have been explained of proverbial allusion (Adeney); it has been held that the permission really sought was to remain and support an aged father until he died (Theophylact); and this is possible. It is certainly hard to believe that, with burial following so quickly upon death as is the case in the East, a request so thoroughly in accord with Jewish feeling (cf. [[Tobit]] 4:2-4) was abruptly refused by Jesus. His reply is, perhaps, capable of metaphorical interpretation: ‘Think not only of the dead, remember the needs of the living.’ There may be, however, a reminder in it of the exceptional circumstances above alluded to. Besides, the teaching of Jesus had its sterner aspect. </p> <p> Literature.—Schürer, <i> HJP </i> [Note: JP History of the Jewish People.] , II. ii. 27; Abrahams, <i> Jewish Life in the [[Middle]] Ages </i> , which goes back to earlier days; Joseph, <i> [[Judaism]] as [[Creed]] and Life </i> ; Maurice, <i> [[Social]] [[Morality]] </i> ; J. R. Seeley, ‘The Church as a Teacher of Morality’ in <i> Lectures and [[Essays]] </i> . For the subject in regard to modern life see Mason, <i> Home [[Education]] </i> ; Turnbull, <i> Hints on [[Child]] [[Training]] </i> ; Mrs. Craik, <i> Sermons out of Church </i> . </p> <p> H. L. Jackson. </p>
<p> A name appropriated to immediate progenitors, as father and mother. The duties of parents to children relate to their health, their maintenance, their education, and morals. Many rules have been delivered respecting the health of children, which cannot be inserted here; yet we shall just observe, that if a parent wishes to see his progeny healthy, he must not indulge them in every thing their little appetites desire; not give them too much sleep, nor ever give them strong liquors. He must accustom them to industry and moderate exercise. Their food and clothing should be rather light. They should go to rest soon, and rise early; and, above all, should, if possible, be inspired with a love of cleanliness. As to their maintenance, it is the parent's duty to provide every thing for them that is necessary until they be capable of providing for themselves. They, therefore, who live in habits of idleness, desert their families, or by their negligent conduct reduce them to a state of indigence and distress, are violating the law of nature and of revelation, &nbsp;1 Timothy 5:8 . In respect to their education and morals, great care should be taken. As it relates to the present life, habits of courage, application, trade, prudence, labour, justice, contentment, temperance, truth, benevolence, &c. should be formed. </p> <p> Their capacities, age, temper, strength, inclination, should be consulted, and advice given suitable to these. As it relates to a future life, their minds should be informed as to the being of God, his perfections, glory, and the mode of salvation by Jesus Christ. They should be catechised; allured to a cheerful attendance on divine worship; instructed in the Scriptures; kept from bad company; prayed with and for; and, above all, a good example set them, &nbsp;Proverbs 22:6 . &nbsp;Ephesians 6:1-2 . Nothing can be more criminal than the conduct of some parents in the inferior classes of the community, who never restrain the desires and passions of their children, suffer them to live in idleness, dishonesty, and profanation of the Lord's day, the consequence of which is often an ignominious end. So, among the great, permitting their children to spend their time and their money as they please, indulging them in perpetual public diversion, and setting before them awful examples of gambling, indolence, blasphemy, drinking, and almost every other vice; what is this but ruining their children, and "bequeathing to posterity a nuisance?" But, while we would call upon parents to exercise their authority, it must not be understood that children are to be entirely at their disposal under all circumstances, especially when they begin to think for themselves. Though a parent has a right over his children, yet he is not to be a domestic tyrant, consulting his own will and passions in preference to their interest. In fact, his right over them is at an end when he goes beyond his duty to them. " </p> <p> For parents, " as Mr. Paley observes, "have no natural right over the lives of their children, as was absurdly allowed to Roman fathers; nor any to exercise unprofitable severities; nor to command the commission of crimes: for these rights can never be wanted for the purposes of a parent's duty. Nor have parents any right to sell their children into slavery; to shut up daughters and younger sons in nunneries and monasteries, in order to preserve entire the estate and dignity of the family; or to use any arts, either of kindness or unkindness, to induce them to make choice of this way of life themselves; or in countries where the clergy are prohibited from marriage, to put sons into the church for the same end, who are never likely to do or receive any good in it sufficient to compensate for this sacrifice; nor to urge children to marriages from which they are averse, with the view of exalting or enriching the family, or for the sake of connecting estates, parties, or interests; nor to oppose a marriage in which the child would probably find his happiness, from a motive of pride or avarice, of family hostility or personal pique." Paley's [[Moral]] Philosophy, vol. 1: p. 345 to 370; Stennett's Discourses on [[Domestic]] Duties, dis. 5; Beattie's [[Elements]] of Moral Science, vol. 2: p. 139, 148; Doddridge's Lectures, lec. 74; Saurin's Sermons, Robinson's Translation, vol. 5: ser. 1; Searl's [[Christian]] Parent. </p>
       
== Vine's Expository Dictionary of NT Words <ref name="term_78706" /> ==
<div> '''1: '''''Γονεύς''''' ''' (Strong'S #1118 — Noun Masculine — goneus — gon-yooce' ) </div> <p> "a begetter, a father" (akin to ginomai, "to come into being, become"), is used in the plural in the NT, &nbsp;Matthew 10:21; &nbsp;Mark 13:12; six times in Luke (in &nbsp;Luke 2:43 , RV, "His parents," AV, "Joseph and His mother"); six in John; elsewhere, &nbsp;Romans 1:30; &nbsp;2—Corinthians 12:14 (twice); &nbsp; Ephesians 6:1; &nbsp;Colossians 3:20; &nbsp;2—Timothy 3:2 . </p> <div> '''2: '''''Πρόγονος''''' ''' (Strong'S #4269 — Adjective — progonos — prog'-on-os ) </div> <p> an adjective signifying "born before" (pro, before, and ginomai, see No. 1), is used as a noun, in the plural, (a) of ancestors, "forefathers," &nbsp;2—Timothy 1:3; (b) of living "parents," &nbsp;1—Timothy 5:4 . See Forefather. </p> <div> '''3: '''''Πατήρ''''' ''' (Strong'S #3962 — Noun Masculine — pater — pat-ayr' ) </div> <p> "a father," is used in &nbsp;Hebrews 11:23 , in the plural, of both father and mother, the "parents" of Moses. See Father. </p>
       
== Bridgeway Bible Dictionary <ref name="term_18913" /> ==
<p> Probably the most basic of all human relationships is that between a man and a woman. Only through it can human life be perpetuated (&nbsp;Genesis 1:27-28). Yet this relationship involves more than sexual relations for the sake of producing children. Sex is only one part of a total relationship in which a man and a woman marry and commit themselves to each other for life (&nbsp;Matthew 19:5-6). </p> <p> It is within this total marriage relationship, not outside it, that God intends children to be born and grow up. God’s design is for children to be brought up in families where both parents live together and accept their responsibilities. Those responsibilities include providing for their children’s physical and social needs, and teaching them the true values of life (&nbsp;Psalms 128:1-3; &nbsp;Proverbs 1:8; &nbsp;Proverbs 31:21; &nbsp;Proverbs 31:27; &nbsp;Colossians 3:20-21; cf. &nbsp;1 Kings 1:5-6). </p> <p> In the case of Christian parents, the training of their children will aim to bring them to know God and walk in his ways (&nbsp;Deuteronomy 6:5-9; &nbsp;Ephesians 6:1-4; &nbsp;2 Timothy 1:5; &nbsp;2 Timothy 3:15). [[Christians]] will learn how to deal properly with their children as they understand more about the way their heavenly Father deals with them (&nbsp;Hebrews 12:5-11; &nbsp;James 1:16-17; see [[Father]] ). (For fuller details of parental responsibilities see [[Family]] .) </p>
       
== Hastings' Dictionary of the New Testament <ref name="term_56915" /> ==
<p> See Family. </p>
       
== Holman Bible Dictionary <ref name="term_43143" /> ==
Family
       
== Hastings' Dictionary of the Bible <ref name="term_53414" /> ==
<p> <strong> [[Parents]] </strong> See Family. </p>
       
==References ==
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<ref name="term_56905"> [https://bibleportal.com/dictionary/hastings-dictionary-of-the-new-testament/parents+(2) Parents from Hastings' Dictionary of the New Testament]</ref>
 
<ref name="term_20281"> [https://bibleportal.com/dictionary/charles-buck-theological-dictionary/parents Parents from Charles Buck Theological Dictionary]</ref>
       
<ref name="term_78706"> [https://bibleportal.com/dictionary/vine-s-expository-dictionary-of-nt-words/parents Parents from Vine's Expository Dictionary of NT Words]</ref>
       
<ref name="term_18913"> [https://bibleportal.com/dictionary/bridgeway-bible-dictionary/parents Parents from Bridgeway Bible Dictionary]</ref>
       
<ref name="term_56915"> [https://bibleportal.com/dictionary/hastings-dictionary-of-the-new-testament/parents Parents from Hastings' Dictionary of the New Testament]</ref>
       
<ref name="term_43143"> [https://bibleportal.com/dictionary/holman-bible-dictionary/parents Parents from Holman Bible Dictionary]</ref>
       
<ref name="term_53414"> [https://bibleportal.com/dictionary/hastings-dictionary-of-the-bible/parents Parents from Hastings' Dictionary of the Bible]</ref>
       
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Charles Buck Theological Dictionary [1]

A name appropriated to immediate progenitors, as father and mother. The duties of parents to children relate to their health, their maintenance, their education, and morals. Many rules have been delivered respecting the health of children, which cannot be inserted here; yet we shall just observe, that if a parent wishes to see his progeny healthy, he must not indulge them in every thing their little appetites desire; not give them too much sleep, nor ever give them strong liquors. He must accustom them to industry and moderate exercise. Their food and clothing should be rather light. They should go to rest soon, and rise early; and, above all, should, if possible, be inspired with a love of cleanliness. As to their maintenance, it is the parent's duty to provide every thing for them that is necessary until they be capable of providing for themselves. They, therefore, who live in habits of idleness, desert their families, or by their negligent conduct reduce them to a state of indigence and distress, are violating the law of nature and of revelation,  1 Timothy 5:8 . In respect to their education and morals, great care should be taken. As it relates to the present life, habits of courage, application, trade, prudence, labour, justice, contentment, temperance, truth, benevolence, &c. should be formed.

Their capacities, age, temper, strength, inclination, should be consulted, and advice given suitable to these. As it relates to a future life, their minds should be informed as to the being of God, his perfections, glory, and the mode of salvation by Jesus Christ. They should be catechised; allured to a cheerful attendance on divine worship; instructed in the Scriptures; kept from bad company; prayed with and for; and, above all, a good example set them,  Proverbs 22:6 .  Ephesians 6:1-2 . Nothing can be more criminal than the conduct of some parents in the inferior classes of the community, who never restrain the desires and passions of their children, suffer them to live in idleness, dishonesty, and profanation of the Lord's day, the consequence of which is often an ignominious end. So, among the great, permitting their children to spend their time and their money as they please, indulging them in perpetual public diversion, and setting before them awful examples of gambling, indolence, blasphemy, drinking, and almost every other vice; what is this but ruining their children, and "bequeathing to posterity a nuisance?" But, while we would call upon parents to exercise their authority, it must not be understood that children are to be entirely at their disposal under all circumstances, especially when they begin to think for themselves. Though a parent has a right over his children, yet he is not to be a domestic tyrant, consulting his own will and passions in preference to their interest. In fact, his right over them is at an end when he goes beyond his duty to them. "

For parents, " as Mr. Paley observes, "have no natural right over the lives of their children, as was absurdly allowed to Roman fathers; nor any to exercise unprofitable severities; nor to command the commission of crimes: for these rights can never be wanted for the purposes of a parent's duty. Nor have parents any right to sell their children into slavery; to shut up daughters and younger sons in nunneries and monasteries, in order to preserve entire the estate and dignity of the family; or to use any arts, either of kindness or unkindness, to induce them to make choice of this way of life themselves; or in countries where the clergy are prohibited from marriage, to put sons into the church for the same end, who are never likely to do or receive any good in it sufficient to compensate for this sacrifice; nor to urge children to marriages from which they are averse, with the view of exalting or enriching the family, or for the sake of connecting estates, parties, or interests; nor to oppose a marriage in which the child would probably find his happiness, from a motive of pride or avarice, of family hostility or personal pique." Paley's Moral Philosophy, vol. 1: p. 345 to 370; Stennett's Discourses on Domestic Duties, dis. 5; Beattie's Elements of Moral Science, vol. 2: p. 139, 148; Doddridge's Lectures, lec. 74; Saurin's Sermons, Robinson's Translation, vol. 5: ser. 1; Searl's Christian Parent.

Vine's Expository Dictionary of NT Words [2]

1: Γονεύς (Strong'S #1118 — Noun Masculine — goneus — gon-yooce' )

"a begetter, a father" (akin to ginomai, "to come into being, become"), is used in the plural in the NT,  Matthew 10:21;  Mark 13:12; six times in Luke (in  Luke 2:43 , RV, "His parents," AV, "Joseph and His mother"); six in John; elsewhere,  Romans 1:30;  2—Corinthians 12:14 (twice);   Ephesians 6:1;  Colossians 3:20;  2—Timothy 3:2 .

2: Πρόγονος (Strong'S #4269 — Adjective — progonos — prog'-on-os )

an adjective signifying "born before" (pro, before, and ginomai, see No. 1), is used as a noun, in the plural, (a) of ancestors, "forefathers,"  2—Timothy 1:3; (b) of living "parents,"  1—Timothy 5:4 . See Forefather.

3: Πατήρ (Strong'S #3962 — Noun Masculine — pater — pat-ayr' )

"a father," is used in  Hebrews 11:23 , in the plural, of both father and mother, the "parents" of Moses. See Father.

Bridgeway Bible Dictionary [3]

Probably the most basic of all human relationships is that between a man and a woman. Only through it can human life be perpetuated ( Genesis 1:27-28). Yet this relationship involves more than sexual relations for the sake of producing children. Sex is only one part of a total relationship in which a man and a woman marry and commit themselves to each other for life ( Matthew 19:5-6).

It is within this total marriage relationship, not outside it, that God intends children to be born and grow up. God’s design is for children to be brought up in families where both parents live together and accept their responsibilities. Those responsibilities include providing for their children’s physical and social needs, and teaching them the true values of life ( Psalms 128:1-3;  Proverbs 1:8;  Proverbs 31:21;  Proverbs 31:27;  Colossians 3:20-21; cf.  1 Kings 1:5-6).

In the case of Christian parents, the training of their children will aim to bring them to know God and walk in his ways ( Deuteronomy 6:5-9;  Ephesians 6:1-4;  2 Timothy 1:5;  2 Timothy 3:15). Christians will learn how to deal properly with their children as they understand more about the way their heavenly Father deals with them ( Hebrews 12:5-11;  James 1:16-17; see Father ). (For fuller details of parental responsibilities see Family .)

Hastings' Dictionary of the New Testament [4]

See Family.

Holman Bible Dictionary [5]

Family

Hastings' Dictionary of the Bible [6]

Parents See Family.

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